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Surrender to Your Success

By Tama Kieves:

Wish you had more certainty or control right now? Yeah, I thought so.

As a former Harvard trained attorney, when I first dared to pursue writing as a career and “create the work I loved” I desperately wanted control. I wanted to know how to succeed. But wild success, the kind inspired by genius, does not arise from formulas. The infallible life is a spiritual one.

Your inspired life is no ordinary path. It’s not about obeying the assumptions of the known world.

But how do you open up to something new? How do you surrender to help, direction, and timing that don’t go according to your plan? Especially if you’re a fabulous control freak or when fear has you trembling?

Here’s what you need to know about the practicality of spiritual surrender and believe me this can change everything in your life right now. 

Surrender is a tool, a way to invite a wild light or higher love into your experience. It’s the premier strategy of asking for help from the universe. Basically, it is giving up your insistence that you know what needs to occur and when. For those of us who are driven and ambitious, this is like learning a new software system. It may feel counterintuitive, and yet, we are upleveling from manual to automatic.

Surrender to Your Success

Surrender is not defeat. When I surrender to the flow of life or to a Higher Love, I feel alive, not crushed. I am open. I have stopped trying to force something to happen and I have leapt into an alternative reality.

Letting go enables me to respond to what is. Surrender helps me to stop fighting my circumstances–and to open new doors of potentiality. I am shown a better direction, opportunity, or even an amazing realization of what I wanted.

This is a dazzling process.

Surrender is stepping out of stuck thinking and touching the holy.

Surrender helps us experience how much we are connected to a deeper reality—far more than we think. It’s the use of all our faculties. For me, it’s when I alchemize the feeling of terror—into acceptance—followed by promise and love.

You Can’t Surrender Until You’re Ready

You may have read enough books or heard some meditation teacher or 12-step program talk about this grace. But still, you can’t force yourself to let go. You can’t cheat either, which is a drag, if you ask me. Surrender is a sacred personal process and you get there when you get there.

Usually, I have to knock myself out like a raging bull in a pen. Maybe I’ve tried a thousand things that didn’t work. I’m finally “done.” I’m scared. I’m tired. I just can’t try anymore. There’s usually a last straw. That last straw is the key and the catalyst.

So, if you’re in the land of frustration right now, just know you’re close to the door. When you “give up” trying to get your way, your own brilliant creative love will guide you.

You are not being deprived.

You are being launched.

Surrender Doesn’t Mean You Don’t Do Anything

Surrender means you are open to possibilities. When you let go of trying to control everything, fresh energy may walk through your door wearing a sombrero. That’s when it’s time to act. Chase the heat. Or obey the gauntlet that has been thrown down. When your soul starts communicating with you, heed the instruction.

Surrender is attunement, not abdication. It’s not about giving up your will to a big white cloud and then zoning out. We are co-creating with Brilliant Energy.

Surrender asks us to listen to ourselves at a deeper level. We let go of our ego, the part of us that insists there’s only one result that will satisfy us. Surrender asks us to pay attention to other information and direction.

When you are nudged from within, you will have the requisite energy to act. This is not a docile process. This is the fuel of the guided.

Surrender is a Relationship with Love

Wouldn’t it be amazing to discover that you’re not alone and that you don’t have to control everything for great things to happen? Big sigh please. There is an intelligence, sequencing, and mastery always at work and surrender helps us to become conscious of this miracle. Sometimes we are being asked to heal a pain within us, rather than mask it with an external circumstance. For me, surrender has been turning my need for control into my greater need to trust in the goodness of life.

The wisdom path of A Course in Miracles says, “If you are trusting in your own strength, you have every reason to be apprehensive, anxious and fearful.” But it reminds us that we are not alone and that the Voice of Love or our inner teacher guides us in every moment.

Can you remember a time in your life when things just fell into place? Or you met the right person? Or you had the feeling, “I could never have made this happen on my own”? Life is incredible. Yet when we are in fear and clawing for results nothing seems to work.

Surrender May Be Hard to Talk About

Sometimes, it’s hard to tell certain people in your life what you’re up to. I’m surrendering. I’m giving up my will to what I don’t understand. It’s cool. No, I’m not on drugs, though that might be next if this doesn’t pan out for me. I’m having a spiritual initiation you might want to say, but some of your friends will turn white or squirm, then quickly ask you if you’ve seen anything good on Netflix lately.

Surrender is a private and mysterious affair. It’s also hard as hell, so be gentle with yourself.

For many of us, things fall apart before we surrender. It’s a sacred time of vulnerability. You deserve support, but please choose with care. You may need new ears or eyes on your life. Or you may need to keep this to yourself like a precious pact.

Do Try this At Home:

So, think about that “problem” you’ve been having. Where have you been impatient? Where do you keep trying to make something very specific happen or not happen? Where are you in fear about this more than love?

Consider surrender. Just for a moment or a lifetime, try this on: I don’t know what needs to happen here. I may not know what would really make me happy. I surrender to the power of Love and ask to be guided. I may not even be sure of what I believe in. But I’m willing to open to a sacred transformation.

Breathe in and out. And step into the wild country of being guided into your true, astonishing life.

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QUICK TIME-SENSITIVE INVITATION: Want to learn more and experience a creative, mystical adventure in surrender with me? I’m inviting our community to do this together! Take a situation or relationship you want to shift…and join me for The Bold Surrender Adventure on Monday, November 3 (+ recorded) for a very special evening together… and it’s just $29!

 

Here's my Coaching Practice for you this month:

What “problem” might you surrender? Where might you like to experience a shift? Can you try releasing your expectations or insistence for how things should go? How can you practice this month?

(Quick… email us and tell me your first thoughts or intentions for yourself this month. Sharing IS strengthening! I will hold it with you in love.)

With love and fierce support,

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This Time I Dance!: Creating the Work You LoveInspired & Unstoppable: Wildly Succeeding in Your Life’s Work!A Year Without Fear: 365 Days of Magnificence, and also Thriving Through Uncertainty.

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